Something that we talk about a lot at MiM is culture. Just the other day, Operations Director Cindy and I had a cultural revelation, and whilst the idea isn't new, our perspectives on it are.
The topic in question was ego.
In my household, ego was somewhat of a dirty word. It connoted pride, selfishness, and an intense focus on one's image above all else.
Cindy, on the other hand, had a very different perspective. When reflecting on start-up culture and acknowledging where I was coming from, she said something that blew my mind. For many working professionals, ego wasn't seen as a dirty word but rather as something essential for success. Believing in your idea, yourself, and that you deserve success is what gets you through the long hours, the stressful times, and the complex challenges. It's not about being prideful or boastful but having a healthy level of self-confidence and believing that you can achieve great things.
So, returning to the revelation. Cindy introduced me to the concept of WeGo. WeGo is the happy medium between ego and no-go. It's about having a healthy level of self-confidence but also being able to listen to others, take input, and be coachable. At its core, WeGo is about working together as a team to achieve something great.
This concept fascinated me, and naturally, I RAN to google immediately. The first article that came up was a beautifully written LinkedIn thought piece by Lara Milward:
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/wego-ego-lara-milward/. The article unpacked a few key concepts. For example, one of the key ideas introduced is that "companies that thrive in 2021 will be the ones that have taken the decision to continue to invest in their people" and build trust within their teams.
When you work for a start-up, there can be a lot of pressure to do everything yourself. You may feel like you need to have an ego and act like you know it all. But the truth is, no one knows it all, not even the company's founders. Nowhere is this more true than when working in a creative industry. Each team member needs enough capacity to be able to think creatively.
When thinking about culture, it's important to remember that it starts from the top down. If the leadership team or founder doesn't believe in the idea or product, getting others on board won't be easy. The same goes for ego. If a company leader comes from a selfish place, it will likely seep into the rest of the organisation.
The best way to shift your mindset from me to we is by understanding that there is no room for egos in a successful start-up business. When everyone works together as a team, everyone can achieve greatness.
One disclaimer that I want to make is that this mentality shift in no way means that you should suppress your individuality. On the contrary, it's essential to have confidence in your abilities and share your unique perspective with the team. However, it's also important to remember that the success of the business depends on everyone working together towards a common goal.
Company culture is so important to us at MiM, and WeGo is a concept we've unknowingly embedded. We invest in our people, we celebrate together, and we help each person in the team prioritise the things that are important to them- even if that isn't necessarily their career at the moment.
At the heart of our company are three core values: Family, Fun, and One. First, we believe in treating each other with respect and compassion, which also extends to our customers. We work hard to create a fun and supportive environment because we know that when our team is happy, it shows in the quality of our work. And finally, we are all one team working toward the same goal. When we succeed, we celebrate together. When we face challenges, we support each other. Our core values are the foundation of who we are and what we do.
So how can you tell if you or your company is coming from a place of WeGo or ego? Here are some key indicators:
-Ego focuses on self, and WeGo focuses on the team.
-Ego wants to be correct, and WeGo wants to find the best solution.
-Ego sees criticism as a personal attack, and WeGo sees it as an opportunity to improve.
-Ego looks for someone to blame, and WeGo looks for a way to fix the problem.
Ultimately, it's essential to be aware of where you and your team fall on the spectrum. If you find that ego is running rampant, take some time to refocus and shift your mindset to WeGo. It's a small change that can impact your team's culture, morale, and success.
Do you have any stories about ego in the workplace? We'd love to hear them in the comments!